Sunday, June 24, 2012

WEEK 5 ~ Finding out!

So, as the above post explained...we just found we're pregnant.  Not just me but my husband, My daughter and my son.
Miss Mimi, my daughter who is now 9 years old and Tee, our son {nicknames of course} are all part of this beautiful journey.  With all this talk for the past few years of 'should we or shouldnt we?' has been a topic of many discussions...with our kids too. 
Fortunatly, both my kids are very 'maternal' if you can call children that.  They are so gentle and lovely with babies and other children. 
I know they will give me grandbabies one day.
They realy, realy wanted me to have another.  So you can imagine my excitement when I found out.  I was busting to tell them.  Hubby and I discussed what we should do.
On one hand, I wanted to share this with them as I knew we would end up letting somthing slip, we hadnt even gone 48 hours without nearly 'spilling the beans', and I realy didnt want them to find out that way.
Also, I just wanted to tell them!!!!!!!!!!  I couldnt wait!!!!
On the other hand, I was concirned that if anything 'sad' were to happen I know they will be devestated. I dont want this.
I also am concerned that they could tell someone...but in the end, we thought thats a risk we'll take.
So today we told them!

So exciting.  Both were so happy! they couldnt stop hugging us and telling us how much they love us {dad and I}.  Miss Mimi, kept smiling.  She is just beside herself.  The grin on her face said it all.
Tee was also very happy and said " I cant believe your having a real baby, in real life" and "there's actually a real baby in your tummy, mum".
Too cute!
So, I am happy we told them.

PERSONAL UPDATE...
As far as I go, healthwise I started the pregancy and breastfeeding multivitamins this morning.  I have started feeling realy, realy tired.  Also, peeing a little more than normal.
Ive been feeling some tightness in my groin area and a little achey...period like.
Last night I hadnt eaten dinner early and I was in the car.  I felt realy car sick...not sure if it was the prenancy or just the car, lol.
Also, today I didnt have lunch till about 3 and man, I was feeling very unwell.  Dizzy, headachy and ill.  Once I ate I felt a little better but still queesy.

I remeber with my last two pregnacies it was the evenings the 'morning sickness' kicked it, looks like it may be the same with this one.
I have had realy bad headaches for a couple of weeks now...actually that was what made me think i was getting my period before I knew.  I usually get a 'period headache' the day or night before i get my period and thats my sign...but this time nothing.  But the headaches have stuck around, UGH!

Moody, emotional....PMT like.  YUP!  Unfortuantly I get the tears and the grumps...so family, buckle up, LOL.

GAS...Oh man...what can I say But PHEW!  My poor husband and kids.  I do feel for them.  I just cant stop. :s
With that I feel very bloated.  I feel like a little fatty already, hehe.

My breast have been a tad tender, but nothing major.

I go through spurts of hunger then spurts of not wanting to eat.  I could devour 3 hamburgers, if i was allowed, heehee...then 3 hours later not be interested in even thinking about food.

I wont be drinking alcahol AT ALL, through this pregnacy {as I've done with the last 2}, and thats a good thing cos Ive realy gone off alcahol.  I dont even miss my weekend glass of merlot...ugh!



BABY UPDATE...
 Little beans heart, no bigger than a poppyseed, has already begun to beat and pump blood. The heart is dividing into chambers and will find a more regular rhythm soon. Bubby itself is about half a centimetre long and looks more like a tadpole than a human. It undergoes a growth spurt this week.

Major organs, including the kidneys and liver, begin to grow. The neural tube, which connects the brain and spinal cord, will close this week. Bubby's upper and lower limb buds begin to sprout -- these will form baby's arms and legs. The intestines are developing and the appendix is in place.

Below the opening that will later form baby's mouth, small folds exist where the neck and the lower jaw eventually develop. As early as this week, facial features are already forming. Nostrils are becoming distinct and the earliest version of the eyes' retinas are forming.
{Info found at http://www.babycenter.com.au/pregnancy/fetaldevelopment/05weeks/}



Wow, pretty amazing stuff huh?


Our New journey!

Welcome! This is my 2nd Blog that I just begun.  My other "main" blog you can find here.  That Blog is called 'our nest' and that blog I've had for a couple of years now.
The reason for this blog is that I want to blog exclusivly about our latest new adventure.  You can guess what that is from the title, LOL.
Yes, we are expecting a new baby!!  YAY!
Here is a little run down of our story so far....
I met my wonderful, wonderful husband back in 1996 when i was just 17.  We fell in love and we married in November 1998...the Best thing we EVER did!  I love that guy!
In 2002, we found out we were expecting our first baby.  We were very, very happy.  Although we wanted to wait 5 years, once we got that news...all that didnt matter.
All was pretty straight foward.   Not feeling too sick, not much in the way of cravings.  In April 2002, at 15 weeks pregnant I started spotting.
That sickening, horrorfying feeling in the pit of my stomach came.  I instantly broke down and sobbed.  I just knew.
A trip to the E.R confirmed the bad news.  A long story short, a few days later I was admitted for a D & C and that was the most empty, sad feeling.  I cant even begin to explain.

Two months later, when all was settled with my body we got the green light to try again.  Right on Cue...we fell pregnant again that month!!
We were very lucky.

At 12.36am Friday, 28th March 2008 {after a 27 hour labour} we welcomed Our beautiful, amazing, precoiuse little girl into the world.  That was such a surreal moment.

When our baby girl turned 14 months,  We once again we were thrilled to discover bub number 2 was on their way.
At 7.30am Friday 8th February 2005 We met the most amazing, handsome little man.  Our son.  Our little dude!

For the past 7 years, hubby and I have been tossing up whether we should have another.  Weighing up the pro's and cons...well they were kinda equal, so it has been a VERY , VERY hard choice to make.  Ever since I was 9 years old I said I would have "3 babies". We knew we always wanted another...we just needed a 'woopsy' to force that decision. LOL.

On saturday 19th May 2012, I got my period...4 weeks later, around the 16th June I was to get my next one.  It never came.  Sometimes my period can do this.  I have been known to be 'late' at times.  Sometimes going 5 weeks.  But a few more days past and I was getting suspicious.
I told my hubby I was going to get a Home pregnancy test and he said "nah, just wait another week"...are you kidding me!!!???
Once I have my mind set I have to test.  This was what I got...

FRIDAY 22nd June 2012 test done at 3.30pm...6 Days late...



So, so feint...I almost thought I was imagining.  I had to hold it up to the light and kinda squint to see anything.  Hubby told me it was all in my head.  He 'claimed'  he couldnt see anything.   What do you think?

SATURDAY 23rd June 2012 taken at 8am...7 days late



Yep...Im pretty convinced theres a line.  Hubby still deny's...but with a silly grin, LOL.

SUNDAY 24th June 2012 Taken at 9am...8 days late.




Ah, yeah...we're PREGNANT!  Hubby couldnt deny this.  Even though its still not DARK, DARK...there is a line...and that line keeps popping up, ever darker each day.

That makes me 5 weeks pregnant.
{I have to still make a doctors appointment to confirm with blood test, scans etc...I still freak a little with the whole miscarrage thing.}

Ok, so we are having a baby!!  A little aprehensive...but alot happy.  Not planned exactly, but defintly wanted.

This blog will be a week-by-week diary/journal of our baby bean.  I plan to journal what happens as a keepsake for my baby.
For my other two, I did this by hand but with one, ive decided to do it online.

Feel free to follow my, our journey as a family, as we go from 4 and become 5.
Here we go...